Bringing Sexy Back

May 27th, 2010 by admin in Intimacy, Sexuality
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What makes someone sexy?  Is it appearance, attitude, experience, confidence?  We know sexy when we see it, right?  And, people aren’t born sexy, so that means you can probably learn to be sexy or learn to feel sexy right?  It might seem hard with all of the things on your to do list or your stress, or your dislike of certain body parts or your worry that you can’t live up to celebrities’ appearances…but you CAN boost your sexual confidence!

Here are a few things you can work on:

  • Know your body – Forget the things you used to hate about it, explore your body as if you are seeing it for the first time.  Learn what you love and what feels good.  If you know what gives you pleasure you can share that with your lover.  Have a little “naked time.”  Whether it’s sleeping or lounging, spending time in the buff can help put you in touch with your body.
  • Work your body – Get some exercise.  You’ll get those endorphins going and you will tighten areas and stretch others. If you don’t like your body, getting some activity can help improve the way it looks or feels.   In particular, find something that feels good.  Try a zumba class, you can work up a sweet while shaking your groove thing.  Find a dance class or some other form of movement that makes you feel good about your body.
  • Love your body –  How often do you ignore the compliments you receive?  Or worse, replace the compliments with something you hate about yourself!  It’s time to stop doing that and really hear the compliments you receive.  In addition, do things that make you feel sexy.  Get your hair done, put on some lingerie or buy some new clothes.

If you would like a little boost to your sexual confidence, try one thing from each category this week: know your body, work your body and love your body.  When you are feeling a little more sexually confident check back here because next up I’m writing about Talking Dirty!  Once you feel more confident it will be easier to whisper (or growl) those sexy sentiments to your lover!

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