Have Vacation Sex Without Leaving Your Home!

June 30th, 2011 by admin in Intimacy, Sexuality
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When I ask couples about their last great sexual experience they often say it was on vacation.  There is something about vacation that allows people to open up and let loose.  Gone are the To Do lists, the piles of responsibilities, the routines, the structure.  On vacation people don’t worry about being too loud, too tired or making a mess.  Being on vacation, gives us freedom to be different.

What if you can’t go on an impromptu vacation to improve your sex life?

Here are a few things you can do to have vacation-like sex at HOME!

Set a vacation scene or mood

Do whatever you need to do to your space to make it welcoming and ready for sex!  Get rid of distractions or possible interruptions.  Incorporate scents, colors, certain food or drinks or any other elements that will relax or entice you.  Take the time and make your space exciting!

Get in a vacation mind-set

How are YOU different on vacation?  Are you softer, more easy-going?  Are you more open to connecting and being sexual?  How can you bring those elements into your love-making at home?  What can YOU do to influence your sexual experience at home?

Press the pause button on regular life

Don’t pencil-in sex if  you can’t take your time.  That’s the thing about vacation, we have all the time in the world.  Don’t have sex when you need to be somewhere in 20 minutes.  Don’t try to have vacation-like sex while you are making your grocery list or balancing your checkbook. Set aside enough time so you can slow down, relish your partner and enjoy your time together.

You don’t have to spend a lot of money (or even have to leave your home) to have great sex.  Allow yourself the luxury of time, an enticing space and an open mind and you can go to paradise without leaving your home!

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