5 Ways to Light Some Fireworks in the Bedroom!

July 4th, 2012 by admin in Holidays, Relationship, Seduction, Sexuality
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Setting off some fireworks this 4th of July?  Leave the lights in the sky to the professionals and instead focus on creating fireworks in your relationship.

Here are a few ways to light that spark with your partner.

  • Go Back to Junior High

Remember what a big deal kissing used to be?  Or holding hands?  As relationships progress we often forget to go back to the basics, instead opting for intercourse as the “end all be all” of sex.  Have fun by making out, going to second base or doing other things you used to do together before you went “all the way.”

  • Create Intimacy Outside of the Bedroom

Trying connecting in intimate ways that don’t involve sex.  Talk about your goals, hopes or fears.  Cuddle up on the couch.  Take a walk or go on a date.  Share a really juicy kiss (for not reason at all).  Focus on your connection outside of the bedroom and notice how things heat up in the bedroom.

  • Seduce Your Partner

After a while we can fall into a routine.  Not only do people have sex the same ways, they also initiate in the same old ways.  Set up a seduction scenario for your partner and watch how excited he or she gets!

  • Show Your Partner What Feels Good

Knowing what you want in the bedroom is sexy.  Show your partner what feels good and how you like to be touched.  Giving in the bedroom is often appreciated, but knowing their partner is enjoying sex turns on many people.

  • Play with Power

Notice what it’s like to be dominant or submissive.  Play with being “in charge” or letting your partner take the lead.  Plenty of people who are “in control” outside of the bedroom like how feels to be tied up in bed.

Have a Safe, Happy (and SEXY) 4th of July!

Looking for more ways to heat things up in the bedroom?  Check out the other posts.

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Set the Mood for Lovemaking

Have Vacation Sex Without Leaving Your Home

Shake Up Your Sexual Routine

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