The holidays can be about family, connection and love. The holidays can be for religious celebration. The holidays can be hard, difficult or sad. The holidays can be about traditions, rituals and sharing. The holidays can be for giving and receiving.
Can the holidays be sexy?!?
Absolutely!
Here are some ways you can “sex-up” your holiday giving!
- Give Gifts that Keep on Giving
Books – Buy a book that focuses on relationships or sexuality. Getting the Sex You Want by Tammy Nelson is great for couples.
Toys - Get your partner a toy that she can use alone or with you.
Erotica - There are plenty of erotic books or audio books out there that will tickle your partner’s fancy.
Classes – Buy a spot in a class for your partner. The class itself will feel like a gift and then the knowledge she gains can be brought back into your relationship. My “You Don’t Have to be a Sexy Tiger: Discover YOUR Sexual Self!” is a great gift for the special lady in your life!
Lingerie - Buy something that will make your lover feel sexy and confident!
Sexy Photos – Have sexy pictures taken and then give them to your partner.
- Give the Gift of an Experience
Gift Certificates - Buy a gift certificate to an adult store. If you are in the Portland area, I highly recommend She Bop! There are also plenty of great online stores that cater to women or couples.
Seduce Your Partner - Plan a special evening or event.
- Give a Gift that Doesn’t Cost $
Create a sexy coupon book – You can include coupons for cuddling, kissing, sex or any of the above experiences.
Read erotica to your partner -Instead of just buying a book for your partner you can offer to read erotica or record your voice reading the erotica.
Write an erotic story – Write a sexy story or fantasy for your partner.
Write down your favorite sexual memory – Tell your partner about your favorite shared sexual experience.
Write a letter - This can be a romantic or sexy gift. It’s a wonderful personal way to let your partner know you care.
The holidays can be a lot of things…you don’t need to put your sexuality on the back burner. Find a way to celebrate yourself and your relationship during this stressful time of year.
