So often I talk with people who want more foreplay, want their partner to be more dominant or want to feel desired by their partner.
While all of these are certainly worthy wishes, they are abstract and might be hard for a partner to do without more information.
When you want something from your partner (in the bedroom or out of the bedroom) be explicit. The more specific you are about your desires, the easier it will be for your partner to meet them.
If you are asking for more foreplay, make sure you paint a picture of what you want. Do you want more kissing? Do you want oral sex? Maybe want you really want is verbal affirmations or flirting.
If you want your partner to be dominant, tell him what dominance looks like. Do you want him to grab you from behind? Do you want him to tell you what to do? Do you want him to tie you up or spank you?
If you want to feel desired, you need to share what will make you feel desired. Is it a look? A touch? Certain words?
If you want your partner to talk dirty, what kind of words do you want him to use?
If you want your partner to be more loving, what will make you feel loved?
The only way to get exactly what you want is to share exactly what it looks like. Do your partner a favor and be explicit about your desire. Do yourself a favor and be explicit about your desires!
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